Banter on demand: sometimes witty, always acerbic.
Silence is not an answer. Silence is the absence of information—nothing more or less. Silence does not indicate a person’s motives, intent, state of being, feelings, or thoughts. Filling in the blanks in the absence of those things is a disservice both to the recipient and giver of the silence.
The best job… ever! The attractions industry is unlike any other. It’s exciting, innovative, and full of uniquely-driven people that truly want to make magic…
Continue reading → Leadership Skills I Learned From the Attractions Industry
I published a book in 2019. It's a memoir. Everything about it screams "cheaply self-published!" and I'm 100% fine with it.
Things I couldn't have learned anywhere else.
Being ghosted is something you can conquer. I share two stories about ghosting and what I did when it happened.
Your pet will always depend on you, fully, and that’s honestly a source of the joy they bring to our lives. Someone who always needs you feels so good to care for. We never stop parenting them; they never leave the nest. Despite their aging and intelligence, dogs, in particular, develop about the same mental capacity as a four-year-old. They truly are always children.
I first had an inkling I wasn’t straight when I was 11 or 12. I was fascinated with certain actresses in a different way than…
Continue reading → How Heartbreak Helped Me Recognize and Process My Internalized Biphobia
Unlike most casting operations, they did actually make good on their word, and within two days reached out and confirmed a booking with me. The call sheet included wardrobe instructions: no patterns, no shorts, sleeves at least ¾ length… and the address of a cheap hotel in North Hollywood.
He didn't touch me. He didn't argue when I cut him off. He stopped when I told him to and left me alone. But he…
Continue reading → For Valentine’s Day, I Found Out I Might Have a Stalker
Reidun Saxerud 