A collection of my best work on consent, relationships, and queer identity. It’s equal parts memoir and advice column. This is for anyone who has been in situations they weren’t sure why they didn’t want to agree to them, for those who thought twice about whether their identities were fixed or fluid or in-between; for those who know the fear of walking alone at night and every decision can be wrong with no take-backs.

If that’s you, then this is something you should read.

A collection of essays that tell powerful and unique but relatable stories. One part memoir and one part advice column, the author weaves together tough lessons about relationship dynamics and mechanics told through the lens of someone re-embracing a whole new side of their sexuality.